oom and impress others with your qualities.
许多指导书籍建议你大步走进房间,给人们很好的印象.
They instruct you to greet them with "power handshakes" and tell you to fix your eyes on the other person.
这些书教你怎么去和他们“大力握手”,告诉你要用直视对方.
If you follow all this advice, you'll drive everyone crazy--including yourself.
如果你对这些建议照单权收,那你会把人逼疯的——包括你自己.
The trick is to be consistently you,at your best.
诀窍就是一如既往的做你自己,做最好的你.
The most effective people never change from one situation to another.
给人深刻印象的人在不会因形势改变自己.
They're the same whether they're having a conversation.addressing their garden club or being interviewed for a job.
无论是交谈,俱乐部致辞还是应聘面试,他们始终如一.
They communicate with their whole being;the tones of their voices and their gestures match their words.
他们言行一致!