Impolitly to ask you a question.How old are you?All right,you don't need to answer me.
Your question is commonly trouble many women.
The intention to get married and have a child or to have a career is simply to achive happiness.
Please ask your heart,what you really need?
If you still young enough,my suggestion is that to have a career first,because when you have married,you couldn't make sure whether you have enough time and energy to have a career.
But if the man is kind enough for you to marry him,please don't hesitate anymore.