1.Nowadays there is often a lack of un derstanding between parent and child.Parents often complain about their children's "unreasonable" behavior,while children usually think their parents too "old-fashioned." Then,when a child has a problem,he usually goes to his intimate friends for sympathy and advice,leaving his parents totally in the dark.
There are some possible reasons for the present situation.First,the two generations,having grown up at different times,have different likes and dislikes for the things around them and thus have little in common to talk about.Second,parents and children,due to the misunder standing between them,may even feel it uncomfortable to sit face to face with each other talking.Finally,with the pace of modern life becoming faster and faster,both parent and child are too busy to spare enough time to exchange ideas,even if they find it necessary to communicate.As a result,the gap between them is growing wider and wider.
To bridge this so-called generationgap,in my opinion,both parent and child should make an effort.The children should respect their seniors.The older generation,on the other hand,should show solicitude for the young.As for their differences,both generations should make allowance for each other.If they will take the first step by actually talking to one another,it won't be long before the arrival of a better understanding be tween parent and child.
2.If you want to be happy with your parents,you should think of living with them peacefully.Sometimes,there are many troubles between parents and children just because they don't know how to live peacefully.Basically,children should not argue with parents when parents say any words whatever right or wrong.Try to look at their eyes and pay attention.That is polite to them.You will find the advantages of it.
如果你想愉快地与父母共处,你应该考虑如何与他们和睦相处.有时候,孩子和父母之间总是存在着大大小小的矛盾,却仅仅是因为他们不知道如何和睦相处.最基本的,孩子不应该在父母说话的时候与他们顶撞,无论父母说的对与否.并且眼睛要时刻注视着父母,集中注意力.这对大家来说是一种尊重的方式.你即将找到这样做的好处.