民间认为“do not stand at my grave and weep”的作者是美国马利兰州巴尔的摩市的Mary Frye女士(1905-2004).她在1932年写下了这首诗,以纪念好朋友Margaret Schwarzkopf的母亲.
http://blog.hjenglish.com/ziziseed/articles/890704.html
Do not stand at my grave and weep is a popular poem, largely considered to be written by Mary Elizabeth Frye (1905-2004), but of disputed origin.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Do_not_stand_at_my_grave_and_weep