答案：
【小题1】C
【小题2】B
【小题3】C
【小题4】A
解析：
试题分析：本文讲述了我们可以通过别人身上的一些不好的行为看到自己的缺点,这样可以让我们对自己有更为清醒的认识,这也是人生成长的一个重要的过程.
【小题1】C 主旨大意题.根据文章第一段最后一句The very thing I had been annoyed at my friend for was a reflection (反映)of my own behavior.说明本文是关于我们对一些不好的行为和情况的反应,故C正确.
【小题2】B 推理题.根据文章第二段When we find ourselves upset or annoyed by situations or by the behaviors of others,it is usually because they are mirroring something in ourselves that we subconsciously (下意识地)know,and we are ready to look at them and make a change.说明这里的they就是指前句的the behaviors of others,故B正确.
【小题3】C 推理题.根据第三段第一句Understanding this is an important part of self-growth.说明这样的行为有助于我们的个人成长,故C正确.
【小题4】A 细节题.根据最后一段1,2行Recognizing these mirrors helps us do two very important things.It helps us to accept ourselves fully,not just the parts we are happy with.说明这样的行为可以帮助我们更好的接受自己,故A正确.
那天我真的讨厌的朋友的行为,当我告诉我最好的朋友特里说,他笑着说,“但是,珍妮,你所有的时间!“嗯,这很让我吃惊,我笑以及.特里是完全正确的.我一直对我的朋友非常的事是一个反射（反映）我自己的行为.
Almost all of us have experienced something like this at some time.When we find ourselves upset or annoyed by situations or by the behaviors of others,it is usually because they are mirroring something in ourselves that we subconsciously (下意识地)know,and we are ready to look at them and make a change.
几乎所有的人都经历过这样的事情在某个时间.当我们发现自己不安或情况或由他人的行为惹恼了,通常是因为它们是镜像的东西在我们的潜意识（下意识地）知道,我们已经准备好去看他们,做一个改变.
Understanding this is an important part of self-growth.When we become aware of the characteristics or behaviors we dislike in others,it may be because we are displaying those features in others in order for us to see and deal with them in ourselves.For example,if we need to learn to control our own habit of using sarcasm(讽刺),then we will attract very sarcastic people to us.And we will continue to do so until our lesson in regard to sarcasm is learned.
了解这是自我成长的一个重要组成部分.当我们觉察到的特性或行为我们不喜欢别人,可能是因为我们是显示这些功能的人为了让我们看到和自己对付他们.例如,如果我们需要学会控制自己的使用习惯（讽刺讽刺）,然后我们会吸引很讽刺的人.我们将继续这么做直到我们关于讽刺学到的教训.
Recognizing these mirrors helps us do two very important things.It helps us to accept ourselves fully,not just the parts we are happy with.And secondly,it helps us to become more caring and able to love others just as they are.After all,they are only showing us what we do ourselves.Who knows?We could very well be mirrors for them,too.
识别这些镜子可以帮助我们做两件事非常重要.它有助于我们接受自己,不是部分我们快乐.其次,它有助于我们更关心和能够就像他们爱别人.毕竟,他们只告诉我们什么我们做我们自己.天晓得?我们可以很好地反映他们.