Take care of the disabled
People with disabilities tend to survive in a world that is largely made
for the “able-bodied” and it is apparent that they still want to lead a
life which is no more different than normal people.But the bad news
is—society,at large,views the disabled as a pack of retards who lack
the natural ability to understand,comprehend or think good for
themselves.
What I came to know so far is that it is our common thought,or probably
our nature,to fear or ridicule people who appear different from us.
But an absent limb or any mental illness does not define their character
or inner soul.They have the same rights as everybody else and want
dignity and respect from every individual.I guess,the disabled are
just as same as someone else,except the label or brand they are
supposed to carry with them,and it doesn’t make sense to disgrace
somebody if he/she cannot walk or has one arm instead of two.
Now take it on yourself—think for a while…what if somebody passing by
stares at you or kids point out fingers at you saying weird stuff to
their companions and even calling you derogatory names?Ah!Such an
annoying feeling,isn’t it?Never know the sentiments and emotions until
you yourself walk in their shoes,eh?Well,the bottom line here is;
please treat disabled people the way you want to get treated.They are
also humans and have the same feelings and emotions like everyone else.
Yeah,I agree with the fact that today a broken limb is no more an
excuse for stepping back in extra-curricular activities.It is not like
that old 1970s when retarded people could not participate in athletics
or professional or social activities.Thanks to technology and
medicines,the disabled are now much able to cope up with the
difficulties,but the social scenario still lies there.
People are still unaware about treating and assisting these people.The
blind has to be guided,the mentally challenged needs to be assisted and
the physically challenged needs help getting things done for him/her.
It is us who have to play our part helping them survive in this mean
world where minority is looked upon as aliens.A friendly handshake,eye
contact and a caring smile can go a long way.Even saying “Hi,it’s
good to see you!” can brighten up someone’s day.
Anyone having depression,alopecia,bipolar disease or schizophrenia
still fights with the daily challenges,but the worst part for them is
feeling being isolated from the normal people.Making an outward,
friendly gesture can do wonders for someone who desperately needs it.
You don’t have to be snobbish when you meet them,stare at them
endlessly or even look at them with a downward angle—it sounds so
offensive!Of course,be there to help if they need any assistance but
DON’T try to act like an overprotective hen.Be open-minded,patient and
accept the differences.
You must already know that people with disabilities don’t want to be
pitied or being differently behaved.They just want to live a normal
life.No matter what difficulties they have,don’t show so much pity or
feel sorry for them as it makes them feel inferior.Just ask for help,
if you think they need any,and wait for their response.Don’t become
over-responsive.If a crippled man on the wheelchair needs your
assistance,be courteous and ask him if you can help.For many disabled
people,dignity and respect are the foremost things,they don’t desire
to be criticized or judged by anyone.
Besides all this,we come across so many courageous handicapped people
who refuse to overburden themselves with their disability and go on to
live a fulfilling life.I find it really commendable,as knowing your
disability and overcoming it with so much courage and willpower isn’t a
small deal.Today,they play sports and do almost everything like a
normal person in spite of the fact that every now and then they have to
face problems but they learn to beat the challenges and live a happier
life.
Coming to an end,I hope that people will stop focusing much on the
disability of the people; rather they will focus on their personalities.
It is not a person’s fault if he/she is retarded.Disabilities are just
a part of our lives,but making it an issue and calling someone
“handicapped or special” is what makes him/her feel different.Our
disabilities don’t define us,so who are we to judge or look down upon
someone with ridicule?