外语系2010级3班 高飞 2010907101
When you compare your values to those of your parents or grandparents do you see evidence that Chinese values are changing
Traditional & fashion
" Raise children to provide against old age ." this is my parents' traditional ideas .if so ,don't say love is great ,because raising a child is still only for their own ,that is the exchange ,Equivalence is uncertain ,maybe them will lose money .
Parents are like our natural creditors ,and this feeling is deeper than the sea .that’s let us can not stand up ,we always just want to in return .The more they believe this sentence ,the more they feel to lose,the more heart pain .However ,our this generation does not want to give birth to a child ,maybe that’s our fashion .“ no money ,no beautiful girl “ is my word .
My grandfather wants more children ,that will increase the labour ,the best is the 3 girls and 5 boys ,home is more prosperous .In the contemporary and raising children to us is a kind of enormous pressure,because if we have no house and car is very difficult to find a wife .My grandfather is just to fond a wife,not care about each other's family and his wife is beautiful ..My parents will be in each other's family,but as long as not too poor,as long as there are several acres of land .The child will not have a special request for my parents ,but the best is a boy,the boy is the Construction Bank and the girl is Merchants bank .Due to the influence of family planning,my parents will give birth to a child ,but they want most is the twins,that would not be fined in jail,have two children also is a face .
We don't want kids ,that is because the milk and good education is too expensive .so many people take the college entrance examination ,is very difficult to get a good university ,even admitted to a good university is also very difficult to find a good job ,because too many people ,resources are very limited .but My parents do not like so care about how to bring up children .And we don't want to recommit the same error ,our education is just like a tragedy .if we have a child ,we wanted to give our child the best education ,not as we now have such a great pressure to buy a house and buy a car .
Europe and the United States most people do not want to give birth to a child ,for them it is a burden .As a foreign language teacher said " we are not yet mature ,have not had enough .Because we are young,so there is no money ,most beautiful girl married thirty or forty old men ,good grass are eaten by the pigs .But as soon as we can afford to ,we are getting old ,I want to travel before death ,to have a look the beautiful world .so I have no regrets .Want to give birth to a child and having a heart but no strength .Although many foreign policy incentives ,support is limited .we will be in a busy city ,University graduated to got a job ,but is a white-collar ,white-collar wages only enough to pay rent and transportation costs ,to see how much money to buy milk .
With the reform and opening up thirty years ,we happened to turn the world upside down changes ,we more and more accept foreign fashion ,without children are consistent concept .Spring Festival in China are getting the cold ,while Christmas has become more and more popular .The changes of the times ,should we change the idea of traditional culture but hold national feelings ,not having a child is not be accepted by the traditional culture ,in the old that is betrayed by own culture .But first we have to survive ,only when survive well is alble to talk about future generations and more advanced cultural life .
So should we change the ideas We should look at our idea is consistent with Actual situation and the development of productive forces .