Making friends is a skill . Like most skills , it improves with practice. If you want to meet people and make friends , you must be willing to take some action . You must first go where there are people .You won’t make friends staying home alone.
交朋友是一种技巧.最喜欢的技能,它可以改善与实践.如果你想找人交朋友,你必须愿意采取行动.你必须先去哪里人.你不会让朋友独自留在家里.
Join a club or group . Taking with those who like the same thing as you do is much easier . Or join someone in some activity.
加入一个俱乐部或团体.与那些喜欢的一样,你会更容易些.或者参加一些活动.
Many people are nervous when talking to new people. After all, meeting strangers means facing the unknown. And it’s human nature to feel a bit uncomfortable about the unknown.
许多人都紧张,和陌生人说话.毕竟,遇见陌生人意味着面对未知.这是人类的本性,有一点不舒服的未知.
Most of our fears about dealing with new people come from doublts about ourselves. We imagine other people are judging us ---finding us too tall or too short , too this o r too . But don’t forget that they must be feeling the same way .Try to accept yourself as you are , and try to put the other person at ease . You’ll both feel more comfortable .
我们最担心面对新的人从doublts自己.我们想像其他人都来看我们,发现我们太高或太短了,太这太.但不要忘记,他们必须感受到同样的方式.试著去接受你自己,试着让对方放松.你会觉得更舒服.
Try to act self – confident even if you don’t feel that way when you enter a room full of stranges , such as a new classroom, walk tall and straight, look directly at other people , and smile.
试着做自己–自信,即使你不觉得这样当你进入一个房间充满了陌生人,如一个新的教室,走挺拔,直接看着别人,和微笑.
If you see someone you’d like to speak to, say something . Don’t wait for the other person to start a conversation.
如果你看到某人你想说的,说点什么.不要等到别人开始谈话.