How to solve the problems
The only problem is your own self.
You feel being troubled because you bring yourself tangled in the web of troubles.
And they just spin you around.
And the more you try to struggle, the messier you get yourself into.
So the only way to get rid of it is that blanking yourself out of it.
And try to imagine yourself from the outer side of you.
Then you will see the whole thing and suddenly understand everything going on around you.
Just pace one step behind to see what is really going on.
And soon you will somehow find out what 'a life without me' truly means.