Nowadays, the problems of generation gap become more and more serious. The poor
relationship between parents and their children is very common. Are these
problems caused by the busy parents? Or, do the harsh family rules affect the
relationship of parents and children?
Firstly, in most
of the families in China both of the parents have to go out for work in order to
earn more money to provide better environment for their lovely children.
Unfortunately, this causes the rare communication between them and theft
children, since these parents always take rest during leisure time. These
parents and children cannot know deeply about each other and friction will
appear. Secondly, parents who ask their children to be absolutely obedient is
also one of the grave causes of the generation gap between them! They do not try
to communicate with their children as their equals. Thus, misinterpretation of
them may easily occur.
To solve these problems, the busy
parents should sacrifice their spare time to communicate with their children
actively and friendly to improve their relation. At the same time, they can also
observe their children's behavior at the same time in order to understand heir
children's personality as it can reduce the quarrel between them. Besides that,
the parents should try to give up their absolute power in family so as lo make
their children feel free to chat with them.