Maybe you often have arguments with your parents about clothes, homework, friends and many other personal things. But what’s going on when your parents fight with each other? Most teenagers must be sorry or even frightened when their parents fight. ①They might think their parents don’t love each other any more and that would lead to a divorce(离婚).
In fact, it is normal for parents to disagree and argue from sometimes. They might disagree about important things like jobs or major family decisions. ②They might even disagree about little things that don’t seem important at all－like what’s for dinner or what time someone gets home. Maybe sometimes parents can feel so strongly about th eir differences that it may lead to arguments. However, their arguments are often over quickly. Parents may apologize and make up, and the family gets back into its usual way.
As a family member, you should find out what it really means when your parents fight. When your parents get upset with each other, they might cry or say things they don’t really mean. Most people can’t control their temper(脾气) at times. So if your parents are fighting, don’t worry too much about it. Try to find a good way to solve it.
If your parents’ fighting really bothers you, you might find it hard to sleep or go to school. If this happens, try talking to one or both of your parents about their behavior. They may not even realize how upset you are until you tell them how their arguments affect you. You can also tell other relatives(亲戚), a teacher or a trust friend.
Just remember that no family is perfect and arguments are common in every family.