Question

My View on University Marriage拜托各位了 3Q

Answer 1

Nowadays college students’ marriage has attracted general attentions in our society.Newspapers also carry articles pertaining to this matter now and then.People put forward different opinions.Based on an investigation 65% of people hold the opinion that students shouldn’t get marry on campus,and I take the same view.There are probably four reasons.First of all,students haven’t come into close contact with the society.Our blind pursuit of love maybe misleads us to find a person who is not really fit for us.A senior of Nanjing University divorced from her husband after a year’s marriage life because of the poor economic condition and the lack of communication.Secondly,the period during we are at college is a golden time for our study.We should work hard to acquire knowledge and enhance abilities.Chances are that marriage and family take up so much time that our study will be seriously affected.When we enter the society,it is really hard to make a successful career because 22% of companies don’t want to employ graduates who have already got married.This will be a great threat to student-couples.Many of them will be forced to leave each other because they couldn’t find suitable jobs in the same city.Thirdly,although universities have canceled the ban to students’ marriage,they don’t encourage it.College will never offer apartments to student-couples.And it is both inconvenient and unsafe to rent apartments outside the campus.Meanwhile a lot of money will be wasted in the family life.Students haven’t earned money.How could we ask for money from our parents and lead a luxury life?What’s more,many parents are afraid of becoming mother-in-law or father-in-law unconsciously.The immature marriage will bring family and society a great unsteadiness.If it ends in a divorce,the hurt of heart is really uneasy to bear.To sum up,college students have the right of getting married.But we must handle the right with great care.We should pursue academic interest first.When we graduate and have a better understanding of love,when we have the abilities to raise a family,we can think about marriage.