设1/(x+y)=m,1/(x-y)=n
则4m+6n=3(1)
9n-m=1(2)
(2)*4得;36n-4m=4(3)
(1)+(3)得:42n=7.n=1/6
将n=1/6带入(2)得;3/2-m=1,m=1/2
所以1/(x+y)=1/2,1/(x-y)=1/6
所以x+y=2(4)
x-y=6(5)
(4)+(5)得:2x=8,x=4
带入(4)得y=-2
所以方程组的解为x=4,y=-2
设1/(x+y)=m,1/(x-y)=n
则4m+6n=3(1)
9n-m=1(2)
(2)*4得;36n-4m=4(3)
(1)+(3)得:42n=7.n=1/6
将n=1/6带入(2)得;3/2-m=1,m=1/2
所以1/(x+y)=1/2,1/(x-y)=1/6
所以x+y=2(4)
x-y=6(5)
(4)+(5)得:2x=8,x=4
带入(4)得y=-2
所以方程组的解为x=4,y=-2