"Drops...drops..." Night,QQ hints from strong (a pseudonym) sound from room faintly.Jack Bauer's mother immediately alert,emancipated bed,crept push son's door see,fall into the roaches woli curled up on the phone with classmates,chat with buzz.
To prevent just to grade son frequent online,before the start,jack Bauer's mother has put home computer moved to the sitting room,which has been using the Internet phone know son for some time.
"There are many more examples of this phone to the child the influence have nots allow to ignore." Xi an iron a psychological counselling teacher about SuYunRu emotionally.
"Some youngsters,already of cell phone produced spirit depend on." National secondary psychological counsellor,domestic first public welfare mother GaoChunHong think hotline founder.GaoChunHong also is a girl's mother,daughter first class in 71 students with a mobile phone,almost,some still constantly updated,individual children and even have two mobile phones.
"They know to mobile phone functions,far outstripping the adults." A "high school students generally use mobile phones do" investigation shows,in addition to connect with family,with the mobile phone is mainly students for text messaging,games,Internet,chatting.
Many students are buried head walk "thumb race".The mobile SuYunRu said,dependence and children ignore normal interpersonal relationships.In their messages,but the real mutual amused when face to face but disoriented.The more serious is the phone to teenagers indecency do harm.
"Through the bad information,mobile phone spread a text,a video,can the interaction,this has great attraction for teenagers." GaoChunHong think they think that they are grown up,eager to get rid of their parents,desire and the constraints of companions,and heterosexual contacts.Then,some dating sites through the comparative secret channels mobile phone,and frequently dating information,even out pornography,easy to lure identification ability is poor,be driven by curiosity led astray by minors.
"At this moment,parents can do,is to make friends with children." GaoChunHong said,want to understand the requirements and development of child heart changes,to grasp on the child's ideas,and together they grow dynamic.Let them know that the family is warm,they won't go outside seek emotional sustenance.
At the same time,parents to let them know of society is diverse,complex,want to polish their eyes,not deceived; Tell them,a mobile phone is a tool,and to use it to do useful things; Let them learn to distinguish between right and wrong.
"Schools will have to do some rigid regulation." At present,some schools have in the student handbook ",the student have a class not expressly with cell phones,once found,immediately confiscate,will not be returned.Each class has fixed phone,can be used to and parent connection."This kind of practice is very popular,to a certain extent circumvent the bad information from the source of transmission." GaoChunHong said.
GaoChunHong phone to "pass legislation to circumvent the harm of adverse information" reservations."After all,in our country present stage,with legal means to cell phones limit not formed has practical significance,facing the complex social,family and social responsibilities should work together to produce their own to make teens.But she is still the immunity,related functional departments should be calling for policy,ensure the safety of teenagers use mobile phone,purify teenagers growing environment.
SuYunRu suggested,should develop a special cell phones,with only students the most basic call functions,most again add a message function,anyhow should "function less,price low some".