人来到这个世界的时候拳头是紧握的,而当离开的时候,手却是松开的.
"Two Truths to Live By"中的一句话:
The art of living is to know when to hold fast and when to let go.For life is paradox:it enjoins us to cling to its many gifts even while it ordains their eventual relinquishment.The rabbis of Old put it this way:" A man comes to this world with his fist clenched,but when he dies,his hand is open.
生活的艺术是要懂得何时紧紧抓住,何时学会放弃.因为人生就是一对矛盾,它促使我们牢牢抓住人生的很多赐予,但同时又注定了我们对这些给予最终的放弃.老一辈犹太学者是这样说的:人来到这个世界的时候拳头是紧握的,而当离开的时候,手却是松开的.