就近原则
也称“邻近原则”“就近一致原则”(Proximity）,即：谓语与靠近的名词、代词（有时不一定是主语）在“人称、数”上一致.
I.在正式文体中：
1.由下列词语连接的并列主语："or ; either …or；nor; neither…or；whether…or；not…but; not only…but also" ; 等.e.g.
①What he does or what he says does not concern me . 他的行为或言谈都与我无关.
②Neither you nor I am wrong . 你和我都没错.
③Not you but your father is to blame . 不是你,而是你父亲该受责备.
④Not only you hut(also) he is wrong .不仅你错了,他也错了.
2. 在倒装句中：谓语可与后面第一个主语一致.e.g.
①In the distance was heard the clapping of hands and the shouts of the people . 在远处,能听见鼓掌声和人们的呼喊声.
②There is (are) a pen and some books on the desk .桌上有一支钢笔和几本书.
II. 非正式文体中：
有时依“就近一致原则”,但也可依“意义一致原则”或严格地依“语法一致原则”.e.g.
Neither she nor I were there (意义一致) 我和他当时都不在那儿.（非正式）
Neither she nor I was there .（就近一致）（译文同上句）（正式）
但是,如果依“就近一致原则”而与其他两项原则相矛盾时,则常常认为是不太合符规范的.e.g.
No one except his own supporters agree with him .仅他自己的支持者同意他的意见.（依“就近”和“意义”一致的原则；但语法上,“No one ”才是主语,谓语要改成“agrees”.“写作中”一般要依“语法一致”原则.
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就远原则：谓语动词与前面主语一致 代表词汇：as well as；（together/along）with；rather than；except；besides；but；including；in addition to；apart from
就远原则：谓语动词与前面主语一致
E.G：He rather than I is right.
Nobody but two students is in the classroom.
就远原则
①What he does or what he says does not concern me . 他的行为或言谈都与我无关.
②Neither you nor I am wrong . 你和我都没错.
③Not you but your father is to blame . 不是你,而是你父亲该受责备.
④Not only you hut(also) he is wrong .不仅你错了,他也错了.
就近原则,就是谓语动词的形式要和最近的主语一致
没有就远原则,其实你的意思也就是谓语动词的变化吧
如果是I and he are going to the park
谓语is要变成are,因为主语是我和他
如果是I with him 就要用am了,主语是I
还原句子：I am going to the park with him