Be like water making its way through cracks.Do not be assertive,but adjust to the object,and you shall find a way round or through it.If nothing within you stays rigid,outward things will disclose themselves.
Empty your mind,be formless.Shapeless,like water.If you put water into a cup,it becomes the cup.You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle.You put it in a teapot it becomes the teapot.Now,water can flow or it can crash.Be water my friend.