如果你和你的朋友吵架了,你会怎么办?你想说对不起
她首先如果你不想阻止你与他或她的友谊?以下是很值得一读.
It’s not about winning.Friendships aren’t like the Super Bowl,and there should never be a winner and a loser.When you start fighting with a friend,it may feel important that you “win” the fight by proving you’re right and he’s wrong,or by making him be the first to apologize.In reality,you’ll both lose if you let the fight spoil your friendship,and you will both win if you find a way to make up.
这不是输赢.友谊不像超级碗,还有不应该有赢家和输家.当你开始和一个朋友,它可能会觉得很重要,你“赢”,以证明你是正确的,他是错误的斗争,或者让他成为第一个向你道歉.在现实中,你都会失去如果你让战斗破坏你们的友谊,你将会赢得如果你找到一个方法来弥补.
Put aside your pride.Maybe you think you will lose your pride if you say sorry to your friend,which means you admit that you are wrong.Therefore you just wait for your friend to say sorry.Don’t let this happen to a friendship you care about.Remember:as time goes on,we usually forget who was right and who was wrong in a disagreement,and only remember the sadness of losing a friend.So just put your pride aside if you want your friendship to keep going.
放下你的骄傲.也许你认为你会对你的朋友说对不起失去你的自尊,这意味着你承认你错了.所以你只是等待你的朋友说声对不起.不要让这发生在你所关心的是友谊.记住：随着时间的推移,我们经常忘记谁是对的,那些是错的,分歧,只记得失去朋友的痛苦.只要把你的骄傲在如果你想你的友谊继续下去.
Take the first step.Try being the first to apologize.You don’t have to take full responsibility for starting the fight,or even say that your feelings were wrong.But you should find something that you did or said that’s worth apologizing for.If you say you’re sorry,it’s like an invitation for your friend to do the same.Once you’ve both said it,you’ll both feel a million times better.
迈出第一步.试着先道歉.你不必承担全部责任开始战斗,甚至说你的感情是不对的.但是你要找到你所做的事或值得说道歉.如果你说你很抱歉,就像你的朋友做同样的邀请.一旦你都说了,你会感觉更好的一百万倍.
Apologizing isn’t about “bowing down” to your friend or becoming a “doormat.” It’s about taking some responsibility for the argument,and inviting him or her to take responsibility too.
道歉不是“鞠躬”给你的朋友,或者成为一个“门垫”.它是以争论的一些责任,并邀请他或她承担责任太.
.What does the passage mainly tell us?
.本文主要是什么告诉我们?
.Why is it important to say sorry to your friend after a fight?
.为什么要说对不起你的朋友吵架后重要吗?
.In what way is friendship different from the Super Bowl?
.什么是友谊的方式不同,超级碗?
.Please explain the underlined word “spoil” in English.
.请解释下划线的单词“破坏”的英文.
.Does apologizing mean losing pride?Why?
.究竟意味着失去骄傲吗?为什么?