1)they are at a loss to know --where-- they should look for the lost child
词组at a loss茫然不知所措
他们不知道该到哪儿去找那个走丢的孩子
表示地点的宾语从句
到哪儿去找,自然要用where了
2)a survey is carried out on the death rate of new-born babies in that region,--the result of which---were surprising
那个地区的新生儿死亡的调查结果令人惊讶
是非限制性定语从句
which指代前面的the result